Each of our stories is valuable.
This was not a ‘Christian’ book. It was intended for a more universal or agnostic audience. Yet the stories repeatedly attested to the way God delivers people from the deepest, darkest places – even when they don’t specifically recognize it’s Him doing the delivering.
If people who do not acknowledge the one true God can reveal His faithfulness, how much more the believer who knows exactly Who is behind every good thing in our lives (James 1:17)?
Granted, our stories can be ugly and painful.
Sometimes we are left wondering if things can ever be fixed, but in those cases God gives us the grace to press on.
Sometimes what we thought was unfixable is redeemed and becomes more beautiful than it was even before we screwed it up.
Sometimes it’s never fixed, but we later realize the ‘fix’ wasn’t what was needed after all.
Whatever the case with your particular story, it is worth sharing. It may be the encouragement someone out there desperately needs. So be faithful.
Too often we let the enemy convince us that our story isn’t useful. That it won’t do any good. It’s too ugly, too embarrassing, too mundane, or too common to be beneficial. His arguments against telling our stories seem limitless.
But there’s a reason Jesus said he was the “father of lies” (John 8:44). Whatever discouragement he is whispering to you, it’s simply not true.
He’s probably whispered a few more lies to you even as you are reading this:
“God can use you without your story.”
“If you don’t tell your story, no worries – somebody else will come along.”
“Maybe your story is worth telling, but you’re not a good storyteller. Good story or not, it will sound dumb.”
“People could use your story against you.”
“Why are you reading this guy’s blog anyway? All this ‘feel-good’ talk is just setting you up for disappointment.“
Lies! Don’t believe them.
Stay faithful. Be willing to speak. Let God take it from there.
Our trials and struggles bring two universal benefits to this life: our own personal growth and the encouragement of others. If you’re not willing to share your story, you completely nullify that second benefit.
One caveat: be careful of “suicide by transparency.” As I’ve cautioned previously, there are places for your full story and places for discernment. Different settings call for varying degrees of transparency.
Eighty years ago, the founders of Alcoholics Anonymous got it right when they urged alcoholics to share their story with other alcoholics who may be helped but use discretion in public forums for their own well-being and that of their loved ones. This was wise advice then, and has stood the test of time as part of the most successful recovery program ever established.
Sometimes face-to-face story-telling needs to be tempered with caution and restraint.
Sometimes a full disclosure of your story needs to be done with a level of anonymity.
And sometimes, in the rare occasions when you know you’re face to face with someone who can relate and will benefit, the storytelling needs to be bloody, raw, and painfully transparent.
If you trust the Holy Spirit’s guidance, you will know which situation is appropriate in the moment.
But don’t let Satan steal your voice. Never let him convince you that your story isn’t worth telling. Share what God is doing in your life. Take the risk, and make a difference.